There are no words

Loss is tragic, regardless of the age of the one we lose. It feels even more tragic when it is a life cut short in their prime or the loss of one so young that they have just begun to live. God reminds us that “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18, NIV) Crushed in spirit, I think that is an apt description for the pain caused by the tragic loss of a loved one. What words of comfort could I possibly provide? I could share the beatitudes and remind them that “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted,” (Matthew 5:4, NIV) but those words ring hollow in the depth of this pain, it’s too soon. So, instead, I remind them they are not alone, although it may feel very lonely. I remind them of the precious time shared on this earth, and I pray that God speak to them in a way I cannot. I pray that they find a sense of peace where it seems impossible. I pray that they find a way to remember the precious memories instead of dwelling on the moments that will never be shared. I pray they find a way to wake up tomorrow, and the next day, and find a way to live and maybe one day smile again. But not today. Today, I pray they allow themselves to grieve. I pray they not run or avoid their pain, but walk through it knowing that God is with them and will be there on the other side. I pray that as they fall to their knees in sorrow, they know that I am on my knees praying for comfort.

Today, I pray for a moment of silence for all we have lost. I pray that you hold your loved ones tight, we are never promised tomorrow-but we have right now.